THE Difference between LEADERS AND VICTIMS
Leaders make mistakes
and say, "I made a mistake, and make up for It. Victims make mistakes and
say, "I'm Sorry," and do the same thing the next time.
Leaders say "I'm
good, but not as good as I can be, yet."
Victims say "I'm not as bad as a lot of other people.'?
Leaders get
compliments and say 'Thank you." Victims
get compliments and make excuses or jokes.
Leaders affect
others. Victims are affected by others.
Leaders would rather
be admired than liked, and wind up having an abundance of both.
Victims would rather
be liked than admired, and wind up having little of either.
Leaders respect
others and try to learn something from them.
Victims resent others and try to find their faults.
Leaders stand for
something and are willing to fight for it if necessary.
Victims stand for
nothing and either fight about everything, or nothing.
- There are
essentially two categories of people in the world...
leaders
and victims.
Leaders are those
whose purpose seems to be to inspire and motivate victims until the become
leaders. Victims are those whose purpose seems to be to criticize and resist leaders
until they become Victims."
Ross Quinn